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Good for you & keep it up. If all shadchanim were like that perhaps the situation would be quite different.
A shadchan who twists someones arm like that is (in my opinion) like a doctor who performs a surgery that he’s not licensed to. It may work out well for some patients but regardless of the outcome- the board will revoke his license.
I’m glad it worked out good for your daughter but think about the catastrophic consequences that others may have gone through in a similar case.