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June 27, 2011 5:37 pm at 5:37 pm #909009
☕ DaasYochid ☕
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Da’as Yachid – every single zivug is absolutely truly a nes.

Yes, but not as much of a nes niglah as having 1,000 boys marry 1,100 girls with no polygamy.

And the fact that we must rely on one nes does not allow us to rely on another.

For those who agree that there’s a number issue which must be addressed, but don’t want to “give up hope” because Hashem can do anything, I agree.

However, there are those who are in denial that there’s a problem because of what is (to the best of my knowledge – I’d love to be shown that I’m wrong) a misunderstanding of the gemara in Sotah that every person will get married. It’s that opinion which I disagree with.