Binah”
“and i feel az is addressing probably one of the most insignificant ones.”
Your are of course welcome to your “feelings” however you might be interested to know that 70 R”Y signed a letter disagreeing with you.
the following is the english translation of the letter in it’s entirety- if i was able to post the pdf in the CR i would do so, but i don’t know if/how to do that.)
here goes….
It is well known that our community finds itself in a dire situation in which hundreds of our daughters are getting older without having found their zivug.
With the help of ?’ ??’ it has been recently revealed that the primary cause of this situation is that boys frequently prefer girls who are a few years younger than they. Since every year our population grows, ??? ??? ???, the result is that there are always more girls in need of a shidduch than there are available boys, leaving many girls without a match.
We also call on shadchanim , and all others involved in shidduchim, to see to it, as much as possible, that the ages of the boy and girl are close.
In addition, shadchanim should work primarily for girls who are age twenty and above. Shadchanim who go further and assist older girls will merit ??? ???? ?? ?????.
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One who chooses a shidduch taking into account to help her and her family will be blessed with sons and sons-in-law who are Talmidei Chachamim.
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