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mercury
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Although this worked for me I wouldn’t suggest anyone else try it. I remember from my dating days I was the queen of doing and saying the wrong things. I must have been if I rarely got past a first or second date. I was 27. My luck for finding someone remotely of what I wanted was dwindling by the nanosecond. And it came to a point where I lost all interest in dating, So I decided the next time I’m going to do something wrong on purpose because Ive had enough. And on the first date with the next boy, I told the boy all of my problems, all my family’s problems, all my negative personality traits and mentioned straight out if hes not attracted to me he should bring me home. Basically I laid every reason why he would possibly say no out on the table now instead of later so he wouldnt waste my time. Anyways you know what that boy’s response was? “Yes! no surprises!” We have now been married for 13 months.