You say that a first date is hishtaus. But how do you expect to get that first date. From what I read here in the CR it sounds like every guy has a long list of girls. So how do you expect to get to the top of that list? Every little bit counts and if you have a nice picture that can help too. It’s not that the boys are shallow, they are human. No shadchan ever told me that a girl is ugly or has bad middos; they tell what you want to hear. So if a boy has to choose between a whole bunch of “great” girls what is he basing that decision on? It’s the little differences-one girl has a better job than another, has a better education, family etc. But even after all those things there is still a list, so why not go out with the prettiest first? Not only that, but all those little things that a resume might list will sound that much better when he has a picture in his mind that he likes. This isn’t shallowness, it is human nature. So take advantage of it!
Menu