wow don’t even get me started on this….. Someone told me that his son has a right to see a picture before the date so he should know if he is wasting his time or not because he wants a good looking wife so that his children will be good looking.
I said what about the chinuch of the kids. good looking or not, it’s the mother who is the kids first teacher. Shouldnt hashkafos and middos be more important?
He didn’t have an answer.