Bp, sory took a while to respond but things are hecdick around here. But, what are you talking about? How did you get to this? I was not putting anyone down. I have met some amazing girls. I have learned a tremendous amount, and grown so much just from dating certain girls. They have top notch middos, always looking to help out another and have worked on growing in their yidishkiet in remarkable ways. Hashem gave boys their maalos and girls their own. I never meant to put anyone down, or said that anyone is more accomplished than anyone. Please reread my posts.
And also, you said the girls ”you are dating are doing just the same”, I am just curious, where are the girls that are learning from 9:30 to 6:00?
BY93, first chill out. Second, I prefaced my first comment that anyone not in the Parsha should not be allowed to post on this thread. The reason is because trust me you do not get the whole picture (no pun intended) till you are actually are involved. I also thought I knew everything before but trust me even though I had sib’s older than me married you don’t really understand. I remember trying to convince my brother for so long that he totally missed the boat on a certain aspect when he was dating, I now realize how right he was.
But your point with the Barby was cute anyway. . .