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the guys not askin for a picture, his mother is- she wants to see if you’re: aidle, pretty, skinny, cute, etc. she also happens to show it to her son which if i may ask- is that tzneius? i mean i’m not one to talk about tzneius being i’m a teenage girl but then the guy is marrying her for her looks and isn’t that pretzus? to all the guys out there- GET YOUR PRIORITES STRAIGHT!!!! not every girl is 5″2-5″4, size 0-2, blonde hair, blue eyes, chesed head, g.o., popular!!! is what you want a trophy/ photograph or someone who understands you, cares about you etc.???? i for one would NEVER give a picture, if his mother is the one asking- i don’t want a mother in law who is so into looks- she should want a baalas chesed and middos tovos!! if he’s asking then i tell him go jump in a lake! ur obviusly conciete and full of yourself because you think you deserve someone who is practicly perfect- they make a little someone that pleases everyone- her name is BARBIE! she’s practically perfect and u can take her where ever you want- if someone asks for a pix maybe i’ll just give one of her- because it seems thats what everyone is looking for!!! and mothers- ur sons aren’t always the little perfect tzaddik/talmud chochom you think they are- u don’t want to no wat goes on in yeshivos!! (i only no this cuz i have brothers)shiddichum is now like a factory! the guy orders wat he wants- and a girl is made- straight out of sem!!! wat happened to the old way? before resumes? i have older siblings of who met their bashert without this factory way of shidduchim- someone knew someone who knew someone who had a cuzin who would be perfect for your son!!!! thats the way it went and it usually worked!