No, we are impartial observers and you are so biased you can’t even see your own bias. We even try to show you your bias by showing you back your own words, and you completely ignore us.
The Torah tells us that shochad, bias, blinds even tzaddikim. But you are choosing to ignore this.
Please don’t tell me about your areivus, all your knowledge is second hand at best, did you mention that to the posek when you asked the question or did you conveniently omit that and only ask something general like “if I know someone is about to marry a bipolar person, should I inform them that the other side is bipolar?”