rebdoniel -“This information was relayed to me by mutual acquaintances of myself and this guy, including a rov of his, who said everything in quotes.”
I agree with JM -then it’s this Rov’s job to make sure they know all the info. He should call the parents, but I’m sure they know the info already.
WHAT DOES IT HAVE TO DO WITH YOU?
So I really don’t believe you when you say -you mean only L’shem Shomayim. Let your dreams go -find someone else.