rebdoniel -“I found out that my ex-fiance left me for another guy. However, I found out through several people the following about the guy:
He comes from a broken home, with mental illness and divorce, and he himself has Bipolar I disorder. From what I’ve been told, people with this illness can often impulsively do things that involve no longer taking medications, violence, risky spending, etc.”
A lot about this post bothers me:
How did you come about this info? Did s/o offer it to you or did you go out to find stuff about him?
If it’s the latter -you went out of your way to hear and perhaps speak LH.
Second of all, you want to go now and tell it over to your ex, even if indirectly. I doubt this would be called Toieles because it’s very unlikely she will accept it from you. Even if you have s/o inbetween -they will have to say the source of the info.
Third of all, what makes you so sure she doesn’t know this already? Perhaps it’s your projection of “I’m a thousand times better than this guy”.
And finally, I don’t know if these things are even Chessronos.
Divorced parents are not usually a real problem. Bipolar people can live normal lives if they are under a Doc’s care and take their meds. So since you aren’t in the know exactly whether he is under care or not -how about Danning him Lecaf Zecus?
Unfortunately, your whole post smells of jealousy, revenge and/or wishful thinking. I would tread very carefully even if a Rov told you to go foward, which I really highly doubt would ever happen.