dolphina -“Coming from the perspective that people in glass houses should not throw stones – Without debating the reason for any individual event – anyone who feels that any event that happens is due to behavioral shortcomings, should very carefully and very deeply do a self-analysis and address his/her own issues. I do not believe that telling other people how to behave is at all effective, although it is significantly more fun than changing one’s own behavior.”
Yes, we all have to work on ourselves, but sometimes we don’t realize what we are doing is wrong. For example, a lot of people went to vote for Corzine in NJ, but the Gedolim in EY said they should vote for Christie because he is Anti-Toeiva. Some people don’t realize voting for a candidate who is pro-Toeiva is a bad thing.