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April 27, 2011 10:42 pm at 10:42 pm
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mw13
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binahyeseira:
Oh, I get what you’re saying now… thought you meant something I had said on this thread.
TikkunHatzot:
“MW13, some of the “boys” were not being defensive, they were being offensive. To be defensive is to say, “I am entitled to my opinion & there is no reason that I have to change my opinion in what I prefer.” Some of the guys did that, but others began straight out attacking.”
Yes, they were attacking the notion that this is all the boys’ fault. That’s defense (albeit aggressive defense) in my book.