ZAS and menucha12: After reading your posts, my heart melted. I get what you’re saying. I dont know if i’m reading too much into your posts, but i’ve been there and felt this way when i was single. It’s not easy to understand when a young married couple want to spend time together to grow and understand each other and they are not available to their friends and sometimes to their families too. I kept telling myself i would never be like those snobby, stuck up newlyweds who cant seem to bother with those not on their “level”. But when my time came, although i did call friends when i was able to, it was very seldom. And i didnt always answer when my friends called either. It wasnt because i felt i was above their time, but rather I was busy, trying to become the best wife/housekeeper that i could be-i’ve never been one before and it was all new to me. (i’m still learning!!)
I could be reading into this all wrong, forgive me if i misinterpreted your posts. Your posts just reminded me of my feelings back then.