Look, people who get married and divorced with a few kids at least jave a normal life. They have kids, they have grandkids,they can wear a talis, they are normal. They tried.
I know this has absolutely no connection, but I can’t resist. Most of us good Yekkes wear a Tallis without trying!!!
[BTW – I would give tons of advice, but i am still only 16, so what do i know anyway?]