Find out What was she like as a camp counselor? Was she ever one at all? Has she ever organized an event? What was it like to work with her? Was she flustered? Never ask a girl is she organised? She will aotomatically respond in the afirmative. Ask how organised is she? The way you ask your questions will be the way you get your answers. The opposite applies when asking a guy is he a good learner? He will respond toward the negative more than the positive. This is because just like reverse physchology works with males. It works in the opp way with females. Find out How clean and organized was she in her seminary/college dorm?
How does she manage under pressure? Ask references to give you examples.
You might not find out if she knows HOW to cook and bake. That you can ask on the dates. However these questions will help indicate if she is capable of what you are looking for.