It helps to address the persons comment after reading it and knowing what they actually said. This is the second or third time you have brought up my desire to go against torah by hurting people who have done tshuva. You have no clue if someone did tshuva or not, you just want me to pretend they did. And I was VERY clear in the above post and others that if you PROMISE to keep the kids around them safe, then you are welcome to keep them private. You want us to assume they did tshuva? and you are willing to put them as a michsohol to kids because when you asked if they did tshuva they said yes?
I know a 14 year old who molested a little girl because he didn’t want to wait 4 years to try the things he read about. He was almost OTD and nobody wanted to upset him so they looked the other way. GUESS WHAT?!!! He didn’t stop molesting, he went OTD anyway, and several lives were DESTROYED.
Next time I see him I will ask him if giving him the benefit of the doubt with no premise to do so worked for him.