MP -Yes, it’s possible to have that in marriage, but just because you do -doesn’t mean it will last forever. My didn’t. When others get involved in the marriage, even a great marriage can dissolve.
We pray everyday “Al Tovoh L’dey Nisayon”. And there is a reason for this -noone knows what tests we will pass and which ones we won’t.
The only question to ask the ones who destroy/ed people’s marriages is -“Mah Yisron L’baal Haloshon?”