Getting married provides one with the amazing opportunity to love, respect, and give to another person, at the highest degree possible, while at the same time being given the tools to grow and become a better person.
True love in marriage is when you are thrilled, and have ultimate happiness, to give unconditionally to your spouse. That is why, in reference to G-d, the highest level of fulfilling His commandments and living to give happiness to Him is the level of “Ahavas Hashem”. When we truly love Him. The same is true in marriage, and in every relationship. A truly happy marriage, one that you desire and feel lucky to have, is one where you want to endlessly give to your spouse through your love. That alone can make you the happiest person.