Holy Moe, sorry, but i think your point is actually a machloikes, the Eida Hachareidis in E”Y and R’ landau are makpid, but R’ Avraham Rubin of Rechovot and R’ Shammai Gross of belz are meikil, and R’ Rubin has a long teshuva about it.
In E”Y more and more milk companies are moving over to Rabbi Rubin or Belz. (i. e. Strauss)
The Eida also stopped the shechita in Uruguay becuase of this problem.