“Please do not call me a ba’al nefesh.”
Sorry, but depending one’s perspective; what appears as a chumra, many times is actually a kulah and conversely, what seems to be a kulah, may really be a chumra. However, I have always felt that the Wolf is consistently on the right track, both halacha-wise and hashkafa-wise. So Wolf, no matter what you may consider yourself, in my book, you are a ba’al nefesh.
Having said that, I may have misread your original post (between the lines) and my response was actually in jest.