ohr chodesh -“Sam: The pendulum has swung far in the other direction. There are only a very small number of times where a needed divorce is ignored. Yet there are many many unnecessary divorces. In fact, the vast majority of divorces are as such. Nowadays divorce is, unfortunately, considered just another option that’s no big deal.”
I agree and this is what happenned to me. But my wife wasn’t influenced by therapists -it was her “Frum” friends. We have come to the point in time were you could be extremely Yeshivish on the outside and have totally No Torah Hashkofos on the inside.
Even though some posters here have blamed therapists for this situation -I’ve found the more “Modern” therapists to not push for divorce so fast. Why can people nowadays look so Frum on the outside and not have any Torah thoughts on the inside?
Perhaps this can be addressed with an Asifa?