“We can’t judge anyone, you don’t know anybody’s nisyonos and upbringing. You can’t say whether it’s likely or not because you haven’t been to shamayim and taken a census of who is sitting next to R’ Akiva. Saying it’s not likely isn’t something that you can say with any certainty.”
True, one should never be judgmental because we can never know what somebody’s situation truly is. However, your post seemed to insinuate that one could get to the same place in olam haba by trying to be a businessman who keeps the halacha as someone trying to become the Godol Hador. And that’s simply not true.
All I was saying is that if you try to become (the wife of) a Rosh Yeshiva, the odds of you ending up in Olam Haba are much larger than if you set out to be (the wife of a) businessman.
“I do agree with you regarding the whole entitlement problem.”
Thank you.