Reply To: what people look for in shidduch dating

PbA – To avoid further confusion on what A Mamin said I’ll try to explain it in a very simple way.

A Mamin was saying marrying someone who is OPENLY a little less frum than you – that’s bad.

On the other hand, marrying someone who is slightly more frum than you, (but around whom you can comfortably act frummer and behave just as frum as they are) – that’s good.

In regards to R’ Akiva – that’s because I’m addressing Machoh Timcheh, who seems to believe that what Hashem wants of EVERYONE is to be in kollel and become a rabbi. I’m talking to a stigma, so I must address the stigma….

You can’t troll me, bar Abba… You just can’t touch this ; )