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It’s possible for a person to be a CEO, or an electrician, or a garbage collector and still have a seat right next to Rebbi Akiva in Olam Haba. Only Hashem can judge a person. Yes, not even our gedolim can judge us. The reason they push for people to go to kollel is because if they don’t then the ones who really can and should will fall through the cracks. Every individual in klall Yisrael has to know themselves and dig their own psyche with emes v’yosher to determine what is the right amount of time to sit in Yeshiva; whether it’s for a lifetime, or not at all..