Reply To: what people look for in shidduch dating

Bar Shattya, I think you were extrapolating on A Mamin’s point of view. I didn’t read that into what he/she said, so I addressed you. I then went on to explain what the “nafka mina” might be if you have two people looking to appear as frummer to each other, as opposed to what A Mamin and I were discussing when only one person is actually frummer than the other.

Man… This reminds me of chazoras hashiur in yeshiva.