Lesschumras
Wrong.
I knew EXACTLY what I wanted.
Attraction goes a long way in driving us towards wanting to be with someone. A Dayan has to be careful not to hear one side before the other lest he be swayed. The potential to be swayed/bribed by beauty (obviously when a shidduch isn’t totally off) is a real threat. That does not mean the person dating is immature inasmuch as the Torah does not view the potential to be swayed by a Dayan as meaning he is immature.