Reply To: from otd to back on, ask away

I know you said that you grew up MO, but do you think societal pressures on young frum kids drive them to go OTD. By that I mean having to always be and act a certain way so, for example, as not to disrupt any potential shidduchim for them or a sibling. Pressures rhiarding learning, and tsnius, dating, appearances, everything really. It is just a question I am not trying to offend anyone, I too live in this society and I also want to make sure I am the best parent I can be, without forcing and pressuring my children and causing them chas v’shalom to go OTD