Perhaps we are being too harsh on Frumguy. You may not share his opinion, but his question reminds me of a conversation I had with someone recently.
This person expressed the same sentiment as Frumguy and like the rest of you I was horrified at his/her insensitivity. How could anyone be so callous to the pain of childless couples? But then he/she clarified and explained…
In a world where there are so many orphaned, abandoned and broken yiddishe neshamos who need warm loving homes, why are we pouring public funds into excruciating medical treatments to create new children? There are so many already on this earth who could benefit from loving yiddishe parents. There is more than one way to have children.
Just something to think about.
And may Hashem bentch all couples with healthy, beautiful children.