Reply To: Divorced and Dating

@health

You know what – lol I hear you about “choices”. But honestly think about it. I don’t need choices! I just need to find the one that is right for me.

This really amazing bochur ate at my neighbours house so I was trying to suggest a friend for him to the people he was staying by. The lady told me later that she’d told him that she has a list of girls waiting for him.. and he said “well I only need one…”

It helped to put into perspective whenever anyone told me that because I have children it’ll be harder to find someone. Its not true! All those that wouldn’t be interested are obviously not the one that’s right for me. So i’m not so worried about the “Choices” 😀

@M.O. Chossid – OF COURSE!! My kids are my first priority. I have friends who’ve been through a terrible time with their step father, I’d NEVER want to do that to my children. They have to accept and appreciate the guy just as much as me. It might be hard to find someone that it could all work, but Hashem knows what He’s doing and I know He’ll send me the person thats right for me AND for them. BH they are small and very friendly and accepting children but they wont always be young so the guy does have to be good for them for the future too.

Thank you everyone for the encouragement 🙂