DY -“Then you should have directed your comment to the OP, not me.”
Because the possibility that the OP Did Not hear correctly. Either way, a lot of posters are making a mountain out of a moehill. If the Shadchan is/was the pushy type then this would be a topic to discuss -how to deal with it. From a one time convo -I don’t think you can make any inferences about s/o.