This is just a personal opinion, but you don’t have to wait for ALL those things to happen before opening yourself up to meeting the right one. If you have a solid enough background in learning (ie:a year, or whatever your rabbanim advise) and a means of Parnassa (EMT) you’re well on your way to dating. Nursing will take you time, and I don’t think you have to put your life on hold for that. I think the same is true for losing weight and acquiring a car. Unless your weight is a major impediment in dating, I wouldn’t let it hold you back.
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