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Rebdoniel,

I assume that you learn part time, and that your question is whether you should switch your venue to a yeshiva. If your question was whether or not to start learning part time, the answer would be obvious on its own. Even aside from the mitzvah of talmud Torah, there’s the added “shelo lishma” that any sincere bas Yisroel wants a husband with some level of commitment to learning.

If your question is if locating your seder would be beneficial to your chances of finding a shidduch, my answer would be an unequivocal “yes”. It’s the best type of networking. As long as relocating to a yeshiva wouldn’t be detrimental to your learning, go for it! In most cases, it’s actually quite beneficial to learn in a beis medrash with a “kol Torah”.

If you’re emotionally ready to get married, don’t wait to be settled into a career. I feel the sooner the better.

Much hatzlocha!