The invitation was in the mail, with a separate card for the chuppah and a separate one for the simchas chosson v’kallah, with no reply card for dinner. The chuppah was at 7 and the simcha dancing was at 10. What was I supposed to do in the interim, go home and come back? I would rather invite the entire world to a cake and soda reception, than do that to a close friend. I am moichel them (and they had been to all my simchas), but it was not pleasant to have this happen – especially when the wedding was made at a country club.
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