I am too old for that. Either invite me to the chuppah only, or to the entire wedding. To be invited for the chuppah and then for “Simchas Chosson and Kallah” (after the meal) is a not so flattering way of telling your B-listers to show up for everything BUT the meal. This was never done in the years when I was growing up, and I personally find it objectionable. Invite the people you can truly afford to invite, and make a big kiddush and invite the rest of the world to that.
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