popa –
I think it is dangerous to tell people that they ought to go out of his way to facilitate others’ chumras. Like I said, it’s a slippery slope. Allow people to do what they want. But don’t tell people they have to help others do everything they want. Just look at how many people have stopped eating gebrochts in the last ten years because of being nice to others. What if in fifty years no one eats gebrochts anymore? Will I, who won’t change, be considered an oisvorf? This is the way of the world. So to stop that kind of thing from happening, I say keep your chumras and do what you want, but keep your kuladig minhagim too and don’t change them for the sake of someone else’s convenience.