A proudbyg: It is very disheartening to hear your situation. It is very unfortunate that people do not think before they speak, but that happens across the board, not only in your situation.My suggestion for you is to get THICK SKINNED and work on yourself not to allow people to get to you. I know it’s not easy but you really need to do this for yourself! I have PITY on those people who think they are better than others and need to voice their opinion where it is NOT needed!! Remember where your sibling is, has nothing to do with you, you can just pray for him, as we all should.
HATZLOCHA!