Reply To: How do you stop family feuds???!!

Really, I approached the children and explained how childish this whole thing is and what should I do about it but their response was

“you don’t understand we can’t do anything about it” —because it will cause a BIG FIGHT in our family”—

basically they’ve been taught not to face their problems but to avoid everything (it’s come out in many relationships they’ve had and if someone rubs them the wrong way they get angry) and won’t face conflict/problems and sit down to talk about it cause they’re scared of the reaction blowing up!