superlamdan-Ich farshtei nisht. You are saying that you don’t know what type of guy your daughters going to marry so you want it to come from a ruba d’lisa lkaman. Because if you know who she is going to marry you would not have to rely on umdunos and rov. You can pick that same chacham (hey, that’s what you called it) from anywhere else.
And about priorities, I think we disagree.