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You said,
“000646,
She claimed that women do not do those things. You changed to teenage girls. You have thus proven two people are liars. Her and you. ”
How Lomdish, your parents must be so proud! This comment is so disingenous that it speaks for itself!
Medium size Shadchan,
You said,
“More importantly, in summary, does she bring honor upon our religion and those who observe it, or shame?
Is our religion and those who observe it, more worthy of honor or shame?”
No religion or way of life is in of itself worthy of shame. People get that.
People also get that just because a way of life didn’t work for someone and they wrote memoir portraying it in a negative way that it doesn’t mean it dosn’t work for anyone.
When you can’t even admit to the practices your community does and stand by them (as opposed to calling someone who publicly states them a Liar). That is were the real disgrace is.