Popa: the point is, there comes a time when you have to put your foot down on ‘well meaning’ chumros. There are women walking around in burkas now. I live in rockland and have seen a few recently. Is that too far? Why? Its all for the sake of tznius. Who is to say what is a legit chumra and what isn’t? The rabbonim need to step up and stop being afraid to say ‘ad kahn’. Its easy to make chumors, it takes guts to give a heter or shoot down a chumrah because nobody wants to be out’frummed.
If its true that you don’t control subtitle then I apologize, but I have a sneaky feeling its not true.