msseeker-
“Feif, how about this:
I DO NOT WANT to be out on the streets at night.
I WANT to ride in the back of the bus.
When there are guests over, I WANT TO eat in the kitchen instead of at the table with my family.
I DO NOT WANT to drive.”
What about those that DON’T want any of this? Is their abrogating these communal norms accepted?