Feif Un; I questioned whether I should even bother to answer your questions, but , I see many have beat me to it.
1) I was never told to stay off the streets at night. Though I find some women who shouldn’t be on the streets in daylight either. It all depends on how you carry yourself. If you are making a chillul Hashem, it doesn’;t matter if it’s day or night. They are both wrong.
2) I have NO problem sitting in the back of the bus.Touching a “strange man” by sitting next to him is asor! I try to keep halochos.
3) I don’t eat in the kitchen on Shabbos, though I can totally respect those who do!
4)I used to drive before I became Chassidish and NOW I don’t! Not because someone forced me, because I chose to.I didn’t feel it is the right thing to do.
msseeker: Your comments are A+
Middle Path: you made some excellent points.