stuck- oh so its a problem here but not at a bakery erev shabbos??? my sister once went into a bakery in bp- which will remain nameless- she was the only girl in a store packed full of chassidim- shomer negiah went out the window- she was pushed and shoved- and don’t tell me its because it was chassidim because i’ve seen it happen with plenty of different types of ppl!! that’s the way it is-
the girls i know didnt go get dressed up and especially go to geula- the only free time they had was fri- so they went- they didnt go to look at the guys etc- they just went got what they needed and left! its erev shabbos!! no one is just sitting around!! there are things to do!!
notedaskan- i think she means cuz a boy has an issur about thinking about girls- but girls dont have that issur-