ZK,
although I entirley agree with your post, however I do understand that there are perople that are on different levels of yiddishkeit than I am.
there are those that have no problem dancing mixed, they will of course not undertand why you make such a tumol about this issue.
However in our circles (I mean the one that I am in) it is clearly ovious that the chasunas have changed, for the worse. it pains me, expecially since I do know the origin and logic behind most of these ‘songs’ and ‘moves’.