The Best Bubby: you know what i always tell people who say they have the best mommy/totty/bubby/zaidy..? I say ‘for you’. Because as wonderful as their mommy/totty/bubby/zaidy…might be, their ideals, ideas, inputs, advice…is not for everyone.
So while i’m sure you had the right intentions, it’s not for everyone.
Logician: I was very sincere when i replied to you. Like i wrote, it really hit home. I am aware that there are women that really want to work but cant for various reasons.
“The point is priorities. I understand that everyone has a different standard of needs/wants etc, but I know many people in such situations where I see a lifestyle which has plenty of room for trimmings.” so while you see a lifestyle which has plenty of room for trimmings, i dont think its anyones place to tell someone else that… 😉