I believe I’ve answered your question.
I don’t believe you did. You simply gave an unsourced four word statement. Nonetheless, if your does explain it, then I ask you further explain it, since I obviously did not get it.
Once again (just for sake of clarity) my question (which you claimed to answer) was as follows:
Why does my holding my wife’s hand in the privacy of our home mean that my home is completely and utterly lacking in kedusha and tahara.
Thank you in advance,
The Wolf