Reply To: MO wanna-bes

What’s RBS?

Fareast-

Ok they were never accepted by the community, but by becoming different is not going to change anything inside, they will never be accepted anywhere that way. They will be odd in both places. Itsnot insensitive because I care about them. Instead of pushing the subject under the carpet I am bringing it to the surface. How can we solve this crisis???

I think people should choose communities where there children will flourish and not be not accepted. Every person can be accepted if they choose the right place for themselves. This often occurs with BTs they stick with the ultra yeshivish community only to find years later that their kids never felt a sense of belonging and therefore turn into misfits. BTs should have a community on thier own so that thier children can feel a sense of belonging. I think this should be encouraged in different Kiruv organizations around the world they should teach them the cultural frum mentality. Often these pple are extremely idealistic and then they end up getting burnt. Us ffbs can’t help it these people are different. Then once thier children grow and create thier own homes they can then opt to join a main stream ffb community.

Don’t shoot me. It’s reality. You can puff up all this stuff about aha as yisroel etc… But at the end of the day that’s where the truth lyes…