Dr. P
“The problem, in my opinion, with shadchanim these days is that there is lots of money involved when an idea comes to fruition, “
Please explain what you mean by that. Do you mean that people who “yenta” in shidduchim are making it rich (i think facts on the ground of monies earned by vast majority of ppl who “yenta” in shidduchim would dispute that), or do you mean that ppl choose to yenta here and there in shidduchim for the chance to strike it rich of a payday once in a moon of 2,000 to 3,000. If you are reffering to the very very few shaddchanim who actually make enough shidduchim each year (in conjunction with other shiddcuh opportunities such as being hired by a city,) are those the ones you want banned? They are making 20 plus shidduchim a year……