Postal:
I struggle to appreciate your rationale. If a divorced guy (DG) has a pool of Divorced women (DW) as an option, then dws have a pool of dgs. Meaning, if a dg marries a dw then automatically a dw is marrying a dg. therefore it stands to reason that dgs and dws have equal chances with each other.
Therefore the only advantage for dg over dw – according to what you were trying to suggest – is the “availablity” of unmarried women to dgs whereas there are few unmarried men for dws!
As for the serious thought you mention at the end, IMO no-one in their right mind will opt to remain in an unstable marriage especially if it involves violence, just because of someones non-scientific survey on what is available in the market and some ones theory of their remarriage chances?!